the motivation to be a "bad wife"

ever since ancient times society has been BRIBING women to annoy their husbands with "money and severance packages" when they could send "my dauter back to me" dad return to dad if divorce with no bribe to motivate annoying her husband.'
for example the  jew tradition called ktba is give money to women if divorce. what is alternative? if marriage "faild" or man died return to dad... instead bad relijin bribes women to annoy their husband until divorce so she can collect the money called ktuba she can only get the money if she annoys him enuf to cause him to get divorce. this bribe is disguised as "help the weak women" when she could come to me her dad and as pa I want to help her. instead the bad jew relijin offers her incentive and reward all she needs to do is act annoying enuf to get divorced and she collects her reward cash money.
our generation made the PRIZE BRIBE larger with monthly payments and other "severance package benefits" which will motivate anybody to get money by annoying and even hitting their husband.
we must be warned that in our society marriage is not only doomed because the lady has bribe to motivate her to annoy her man but also we must recognize and avoid marriage and weddings until society removs the prize for being annoying.
earlier generations  could hit the woman when she was annoying but if we cant, then the marriage is domed because she wants to get her reward and easy to annoy her man.
Christianity removed the bribe by forbidding divorce as book said.
Anglican rejected pope for divorce truly rejecting book... unless claiming only resurection is a principle but the rest is not essential. if pope claimed essential rejected pope because less important and violat-able same as covering hair in Corinthians.