When to Break up.
disclaimer: "each Relationship is unique" and can differ from these ideas, which are not the only reasons to separate, just common reasons.
WARNING this content is considere explicit despite schools teach "sex ed" and should read it
a, If either partner is younger than 18, high school age, and read this, if one pushes or pressures you to do "it" i recommend break up, to separate from anyone who thinks "consent about sex, at that age is consent." obviously i recommend submit to law, not say "we are both minors" nor plan we wont get caught, such pressuring is a reason to separate, i mean end the relationship. certainly not risk one adult with under age because even if say consent , still same as if not consented.
i suggest for these examples using screening. tell your lover we will not do "it" until 18 birthday. based on their response, do screening. the partner might leave you, showing wanted it then, so as above, that breakup would be mutual. the loss is worth it despite feeling a crush, and feeling rejected still better not to be with that type than submit. especially if considered option, better to self satisfy than to risk.
if not leave, the remaining option is either stay to argue, to pressure you, in which case you succeeded at screening them and you should dump them. or will agree so no sex. either way, if feel urges only do self satisfy.
in my opinion, if your religion says dont masturbate, still make an exception and masturbate even if committed to other parts, because this is just a harmless exception.
b, a common reason to break up is arguments especially angry arguments, some can reconnect after arguments, however if one showed anger for the other "saying a different opinion" in words ( i dont mean annoying action) , i recommend leaving the angry one, especially adults, should separate because cannot communicate. especially when just talking about opinions. Communication is critical but that is a later topic.
when should adults break up?
a, defining expectations is very important if you do not define "casual" it can lead to arguments and accusations. the couple must speak openly and honestly, to understand expectations for example
if casual means not exclusive, then only if both specified and agreed, but if only one wants exclusive meaning only you 2, (because casual means not dating but yes exclusive) that is when you/they should break up their "boyfriend and girlfriend" relationship, to separate, because one wants and desires exclusive but the other doesn't.
more common reasons:
b, If one or both partners don't feel a "strong emotional connection" it is common to end the relationship.
c, if adults dont feel feelings of intimacy, it is common to separate.
d, if the relationship is for "enjoyment" or companionship but later one partner changed the purpose, separation is common.
e, if one feels annoyed, Communication is important, so speak up about the annoying behavior. if not speaking up, the other won't know , so will be continuing to annoy more, which you don't want.
f, if couples experience frequent misunderstandings, that indicated broken communication so that must be fixed to avoid breakup. so this summarised common reasons to breakup. other reasons can also justify ending a relationship
a, If either partner is younger than 18, high school age, and read this, if one pushes or pressures you to do "it" i recommend break up, to separate from anyone who thinks "consent about sex, at that age is consent." obviously i recommend submit to law, not say "we are both minors" nor plan we wont get caught, such pressuring is a reason to separate, i mean end the relationship. certainly not risk one adult with under age because even if say consent , still same as if not consented.
i suggest for these examples using screening. tell your lover we will not do "it" until 18 birthday. based on their response, do screening. the partner might leave you, showing wanted it then, so as above, that breakup would be mutual. the loss is worth it despite feeling a crush, and feeling rejected still better not to be with that type than submit. especially if considered option, better to self satisfy than to risk.
if not leave, the remaining option is either stay to argue, to pressure you, in which case you succeeded at screening them and you should dump them. or will agree so no sex. either way, if feel urges only do self satisfy.
in my opinion, if your religion says dont masturbate, still make an exception and masturbate even if committed to other parts, because this is just a harmless exception.
b, a common reason to break up is arguments especially angry arguments, some can reconnect after arguments, however if one showed anger for the other "saying a different opinion" in words ( i dont mean annoying action) , i recommend leaving the angry one, especially adults, should separate because cannot communicate. especially when just talking about opinions. Communication is critical but that is a later topic.
when should adults break up?
a, defining expectations is very important if you do not define "casual" it can lead to arguments and accusations. the couple must speak openly and honestly, to understand expectations for example
if casual means not exclusive, then only if both specified and agreed, but if only one wants exclusive meaning only you 2, (because casual means not dating but yes exclusive) that is when you/they should break up their "boyfriend and girlfriend" relationship, to separate, because one wants and desires exclusive but the other doesn't.
more common reasons:
b, If one or both partners don't feel a "strong emotional connection" it is common to end the relationship.
c, if adults dont feel feelings of intimacy, it is common to separate.
d, if the relationship is for "enjoyment" or companionship but later one partner changed the purpose, separation is common.
e, if one feels annoyed, Communication is important, so speak up about the annoying behavior. if not speaking up, the other won't know , so will be continuing to annoy more, which you don't want.
f, if couples experience frequent misunderstandings, that indicated broken communication so that must be fixed to avoid breakup. so this summarised common reasons to breakup. other reasons can also justify ending a relationship
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