fact: society offers a REWARD to women she is guaranteed payment a large reward if she can cause a divorce. and the man will pay her for her efforts to annoy him. once the couple argues that is a pretty sweet deal. details below.
most humans are busy very busy they do not have a chance to think about the benefits and losses of marriage they just do what is expected. marriage is "nothing to think about."
in the past humans were busy hunting or farming and now with our society the food is prepared efficiently so most humans in developed countries can do different types of work like services and office.
so they are so busy they do not think abut marriage they simply just set a goal to find a spouse and marry them and have a family.... but is that smart?
only the single people have time to think about it while the family men are busy worried if the salary will pay for the childrens' clothes and the house expenses and the wife dresses shoes manicures nobody told me about wife spending money on manicures. the assumption is if you love her, then you will be happy with whatever choices she makes... until you notice the credit card debt. if you pay that there is not enuf money to pay the monthly rent or mortgage payments but if you do not the amount will grow with interest the credit card debt increases with "interest" the amount keeps growing... the emotion vanishes quickly...
**but who has time to think about it? the single men. who are not busy worrying as above and not busy with kids dressing in morning and making sure they do homework and get to bed in pm.
when single guys point out the facts they are often dismissed you have "sour grape" syndrome since you are single and CANNOT get a spouse you try to console yourself that marriage is bad... yet the fact remains that SOME single guys feel lonely and think marriage is good so being single is not only "not a cause" but also there can be no "excuse" to ignore the factors.
a simple excuse to dismiss cannot ignore the evidence.
we must weight the pros and cons and since people refuse to talk about these issues the only place is comedy tv where you can lie that "just joking" while in fact the problems are very real and much worse.
I find such comedies very educational... but for me too late.
the main reason I wanted to get married was definitely the wrong one.
when I was a teen I was taught by the rabbis that "squeezing out" male seed is a sin. so I figured if I would be married I would sleep with a wife... in hindsight that was very stupid because very few women want coitus at the rate per week of a young man... a solution ALWAYS EXISTED in tradition because people knew this fact. men for thousands of years were aware of this issue and took more than one wife so when one said she had a headache... the other one was in the mood. but society forbids more than one wife and womens lib however justified the goal was... still created bad women. and the issue of monopoly... as the ancient saying is "who pays who for prostitution" obviously the man wants more and the monopoly of one wife forces the problem and do not forget the rewar given to women if they annoy the man enough for him to want a divorce the house money and monthly payments that is lots of shoes... yippy.
before my wedding I tried to discuss with my parents the pros and cons of marriage.. it quickly turned into a battle of arguments because they refused to discuss the issue and certainly not speak about coitus.
only those who are single adults have time to think about the pros and cons as they fall asleep lonely and wonder is there ANY benefit committing to a woman in our society? so many "cons" and not even one benefit?? can that be?
while the rest are busy with families and do not realize the trouble they got into.
I sometimes think of the overpopulation... not just in india and china but notice the TRAFFIC JAMS in cities. the lanes of the highway are filled with long rows of cars despite many lanes. the subway trains are filled all squeezed together inside despite many subway trains per hour... in contrast to crowded because only one bus per hour.
it is bad enuf now and then we are expected to add more kids?? they will also drive... or squeeze into the subway trains.
simple humans think "having a family" is something like getting a car except you do not "buy" the kids. free joy.
a very important factor is to ask: who thinks about the fact that parents do not agree so how to handle that? despite the Christian holy book offering the solution even Christians do not accept what the book said on this topic.
there is no time to discuss "everything" in marriage so each one does what they want until the other complains "what did you do that for?"
then we need to discuss at least major stuff. but what is considered major? how often wife gets new shoes and manicures? that is a "small expense".
men do not get manicures unless they are so rich that the expense does not matter because it is not a necessity.
I cut my own nails. jesus christ !
so why do women get to spend money on non-necessities? I know why because the "end game" is husband must pay in divorce "for the kids needs to the mother" who spends "the-money-for-the-kids on herself" because just a child can make do with the minimum for survival. or some women will spend extra on the kid in addition to herself hoping the man will pay more that is a sweet revenge for women too.
so what are realy the pros and cons. is it a benefit that I am expected to marry? if a man said "I get nothing" he will be criticized "do not be selfish" but who critices the women in a divorce settlement for that same issue.
do you think you will "benefit" in marriage that "obviously both genders enjoy seks? firstly men do not know just how rare it is to find a woman who wants at the same frequency as a young man and WE SHOULD KNOW from the fact that for thousands of yers one woman was not enough to satisfy each man. WORSE IN OUR SOCIETY considering "one wife" is like the idea of monopoly only one product is more expensive price. the wedding ring is literally the same as paying the whore... the only difference is the wife will say no but for the prostitute a deal is a deal.
who thinks about that? only single guys have time so does that make the fact less true? it is still a fact.
and how to handle disagreements?
if there would be three judges then they could vote and the majority wins but
***2 equal parents is stupid VERY STUPIDLY FOOLISH I say no she says yes and can do it... "don't tell me what to do" they each will say. so marriage is a very stupid idea even before we consider "until death d you part"
only a naïve fool would enter the commitment called marriage "get married" is not getting. because he is not warned. so I warn you.
that feeling of "fun to be around" fades in arguments and TOO LATE you are already committed to continue or pay the reward to her.
in fact the most important factor is the REWARD women are guaranteed if they act bad and cause a divorce that is encouragement "I want my reward" money in the divorce. that motivates them to be evil to get the reward of divorce money.
a wise society would tell me to welcome back my daughter if divorce and then my house my rules hen no reward for being annoying t her husband.
instead society offers a reward for divorced woman. think about "how many shoes I can buy without him complaining the way he does now. and he will give the money for them.
if I annoy the husband enuf that he divorces me... such an offer would tilt even the few decent women who are not just pretending to be nice "until" the man is snared.
so be warned.
a smart man will never enter a marriage commitment.
so where will babies come from? the other fools will ignore the evidence and in thened pay their divorcees the SALARY for annoying them... that is a sweet deal. I would annoy my wife if I would get paid to do it... wadya think is in their minds?
only religion caused the culture to get married and the evidence is the presence of a priest or rabbi.
so even now when some marry in a court with a judge it is only the influence of religion. the reward offered to divorcees is guaranteed to make the average woman "more annoying" and tempt even the sweetest girl will look for the reward after a few arguments so don't enter the mess... don't enter the marriage commitment. you have been warned.
the fact that my marriage was bad and divorced does not change the evidence. look at the evidence.
and who would marry a woman knowing that a female is so foolish to "know birth is painful" and yet instead of avoiding pain still want to do birth... woman are literally blind to facts. we know we need to avoid pain how can you marry such a stupid being. time to think about the evidence before committing. luckily there is an option of men marrying men but what will a guy like me do? the most I can do is warn others. do not repeat my mistakes. better lonely than annoyed.
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