Sunday, October 31, 2021

single moms

my experience is that kids with only moms are polite and non violent.
thos cuses a conflict when i here that many violent criminals grew up with no dad and some claim that s the CAUSE of the wildness... the lack of discipline when mom DES say "wait til your father gets home" she does say t but if she cant... then lack? no i experienced several kids only ma and they were not violent they were more polite than kids with both parents and certainly far from the violent bul;lies that agd both parents yet rebeld.
the theory is only to scare peope not to divorce and in the video star trek KIRK was wild they say no pa so he stole a car a nd was wild lacj of dicipline like "wait til your pa gets home" but that is not real. one parent is  more than enuf and a father... teh kid was still bullies... with a pa.  and if the father is in the marriage with hoke at night not with kids kuz busy with work and wife no interaction with kids the father should yell? ma yells. father hits? then kid will hit at school when he is angry same as he learnt from his father the father cany hit it is the same crime as hitting an adult that is severe ... except hitting a weaker child is cowardlly kuz cant defend and adds to the cruelty to their own child... if cant hit or yell then nothing remains for pa to do.
 and if pa is busy then kirk would still steal and crash a car  the lack would not cause any change? in fact the kid is less wild if he has ma as an example... unless it is the PEER PRESSURE in those socieitis even with a pa the peer pressure would push to crime.
pa cannot overpower peer pressure so what role does he have? to throw a ball?  bounce it off the steps, my pa said but only of you have a fence or else the ball rolls into the street danger and lost down gutter sad.
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